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St. Giles The Abbot: 

The Garden of Remembrance

 

Interment of Cremated Remains

We welcome all enquiries from those wishing to explore the possibility of the interment of cremated remains in the Garden of Remembrance. 

There is a plan of the lawn on which each burial of ashes is recorded.

You may be researching your family history or have other reasons for tracing a record of someone’s Interment.   If you would like further information and/or wish to either inspect the record of the cremation or visit the Garden, you may make an appointment to visit the Church — preferably on a Tuesday morning - by telephoning or emailing the Parish Office.

The upkeep of the Garden of Remembrance is carried out by a group of voluntary workers, usually every Tuesday morning, who remove dead flowers, dead leaves, weeds and other unwanted materials.

 

 

 Garden of Remembrance Register

If you are researching your family history or have other reasons for tracing a record of someone’s interment of cremated remains, we are pleased to include on this website a Consolidated Alphabetical Index from November 1956.

Click here for a consolidated alphabetical index.         Click here to view the index to the codings used.

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There are specific regulations, laid down by the Diocese, as to what floral arrangements are permitted, similar to those for the whole of the churchyard, and receptacles are provided nearby for refuse. There is a paved area in the centre of the lawn on which are two bench seats for people to sit quietly

 

 

                                            

                 Garden, and Wall Phases 2 & 1                                               Memorial Garden Wall- Phase 3

 

Remembering Loved Ones

Following completion of Phase 3 of the Memorial Garden Wall there is now the continued opportunity to remember, with a Memorial Plaque, those whose ashes are buried anywhere within the churchyard.

The Plaques measure approximately 250mm wide x 150mm (10 x 6 inches) and there is a standard charge for the making of the Plaque, incising lettering up to 55 characters and mounting on the wall.  More characters may be incised for an extra charge.  All proceeds go to the Churchyard Maintenance Fund and thus help to preserve the beauty of the area.

Interested persons should apply to the Parish Office for a 'Preliminary Application Form WP2', completion of which will not commit them in any way.

 

History - Development of the Garden

 

In 1956, when cremation started to become an acceptable alternative to interment, it was decided at St. Giles to provide a walled rose garden where ashes could be scattered and small metal plaques inserted into the ground. There were also facilities for placing stone engraved slabs on the wall. Regulations came in which forbade the scattering of ashes and from this developed the need to have ashes buried. So, in 1978, the lawn was laid and the two side walls built with stone plaques fixed to them. In 1990, when the walls were fully covered with plaques, it was decided to front the lawn with a pathway where more plaques could be laid.

 

Cremations increased in popularity and in 1998, when all the space on the two paths had been occupied, arrangements were made with Francis Chappell & Sons to build a ‘Wall of Remembrance’ where more stone plaques could be secured. The wall also afforded a screen to the chain-linked boundary.  The original Wall is now known as 'Phase 1', having been twice extended.

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